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Let me start by saying I am sorry for where you find yourself as you sit and read these words. I’ve been in your shoes. I promise it can get better!

 

I was first married in 2004 and within 4 years we had 2 beautiful daughters. When my youngest daughter was only 7 months old, we separated the first time. We ended up reconciling after 9 months apart. The agony of the separation and the subsequent forgiveness that I had to live out daily during that time was the single most difficult thing I’d ever lived through. A couple years later our marriage ended in divorce anyways. My daughters were 5 and 2 and half years old. With the help of an amazing support system I made the decision that I would not under any circumstances let myself get stuck in bitterness, repeat the same mistakes or allow anyone to rob me of the future I wanted for my children. I vowed I would not jump into another relationship until I knew myself better. I was determined that if I had to walk this road I would walk it well so I could hold my head up high. During this time I developed the tools and the life skills that would later save my life.

In 2016, I married the man of my dreams. I was truly living my best life. In 2019, I followed my passion to acquire my certification as a life coach. I wanted to share my new skills, experience and knowledge with other women. My hope was to walk them out of their darkest night into the warmth of the sun. I had no way to know that my darkest night was still to come. In 2020, I lost my husband unexpectedly. It felt like a bomb had gone off in my life. The loss was almost unbearable. Looking back I am thankful for the lessons and the tools I learned following my divorce. It's been an incredibly difficult road since that awful day but the sun is shining again. I know it can shine for you again too.

While every situation, circumstance and relationship is different; there is no escaping the crushing feelings one feels following a divorce/separation or loss. Regardless whether you are the one seeking the divorce or the one being asked, there are powerful emotions at work. Life is a series of choices that have effected your current situation and choices will be what leads you through it. This is no time to “wing it”.  You and I will work together to plan and execute the steps necessary for you to live the life you CHOOSE. It may not be your choice to be going through a divorce, but it is your choice how you want to get through it. And that is what I am here to help you do! I can’t wait to meet you and walk this profound journey with you as your “thinking friend” and coach.

Together with my two kids, one of which is just starting college,  we are rebuilding and redesigning a new life we love. I am a native of Fort Worth and have been a licensed real estate agent for over 14 years. Before becoming a Realtor, I owned my own design and furniture business for nearly 7 years. Giving to those in need is a cornerstone principle in my life. A portion of my income goes directly to help improve the lives of others in my community. 

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